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Putting on the Bond of Perfection

The Feast of the Holy Family

And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection. And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body. And be thankful (Col. 3:14-15)

Despite what the world tells us, we’re still in the joys of the Christmas season and will be for the next week. The Church gives us wonderful feasts to celebrate during these Octave days of Christmas. Today we celebrate the solemnity of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. The liturgy for today’s feast tells us in the opening prayer,

O God, who were pleased to give us the shining example of the Holy Family, graciously grant that we may imitate them in practicing the virtues of family life and in the bonds of charity….

Christ is that bond of charity and source of virtues. Saint Paul tells us in that beautiful second reading from Colossians, we’re given many virtues to strive for and imitate. These virtues are, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another… (Col. 3:12-13)

As pertinent and noble as these virtues are; in addition to them, we’re to put on love and put on Christ. Indeed, to put on Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit, the very Love of God, Who has been poured out into our hearts. (Romans 5:5). A family and its members have Christ in their hearts by the power of the Holy Spirit. By this grace we’re able to imitate our Blessed Mother in Her conceiving Christ in the flesh by the power of that same Holy Spirit. Christ is the center of our hearts and our world, our universe. The Second Vatican Council’s document on the Church in the Modern World, Gaudium et spes, teaches that the family is the foundation of society (52).

Today we honor the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. But we also honor today and encourage today, the goodness and power of the family generally speaking. The family is where the love of Christ is witnessed to. The self-giving love of husband and wife always open to life, brings forth the goodness and blessing of children. Through the power of the sacrament of marriage where a man and woman are joined together to become one flesh, the love of Christ for the Church is witnessed. However, the family can be witnessed to in a variety of ways in the Church. We have many examples of this variation of family in the lives of the saints. And there’s also family life lived out in religious communities in the consecrated life. Here, this self-offering love is live out in a particular way….well at least ideally…as it is I’m sure with family life in general. None-the-less, in all varieties of families, there is to be self-giving love open to life, imitating and witnessing to the self-giving love of Christ on the Cross. It is in the family where we learn how to give and take, offering something of themselves for the other. We are made holy by sharing in the fullness of the life of Christ. We are created in His image and likeness, in the life of the Trinity. In the book of Genesis we read, “Then God said: Let us make human beings in our image, after our likeness” (Gen. 1.26). We are created in the image of the Trinity, in the image of the relationship that the Trinity Is, the love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

The love of Christ is at the center of the family as He is the center of creation. All that moves and lives in creation is drawn back to the central act of the love of Christ, that is His coming into the world through the power of the Holy Spirit born of the Blessed Virgin Mary, His self-offering of love on the Cross for our Redemption. The beautiful teachings on the family as the soul of society spills over into the world through the life of the family, teaching the world how to love. This is why it’s good for us in love to pray for the promotion and encouragement of the institution marriage and family life. In our world more and more we see confusion about the truth of the family and marriage, and the culture of death rearing its ugly head in the realities of abortion, artificial birth control, and the redefinition of marriage. Naming these as distortions of family life is not about condemning, but about teaching the Truth in Love. The family is again at the heart and center our society, and it’s there where we learn to love one another and to exemplify this love for the world. 

Today, let us pray through the powerful intercession of the Holy Family. May we all grow in these beautiful virtues of family life in order to cooperate with Christ in striving to bring about His image in the world.

Pax,

Fr. Aidan, OSB

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Christmas Blessings from FRESHImage

The team at FRESHImage prays that you and your family have a very blessed and peaceful Christmas!

Today is the Day for which we have been preparing, the day the human family had been awaiting since the Fall of our first parents. From the moment we grasped at the fruit of that tree of good and evil we have been asking God for His mercy, calling out to Him in repentance, and beseeching Him to reach out to us once more.

Over the past four weeks the Church has blessed us once again with an opportunity to enter into these centuries of anticipation. And, for our part, we have striven to place ourselves in touch with this sense of anticipation in many ways over the past month. We have made great use of the Advent Wreath sacramental, praying with this great symbol of the season each Sunday, and attending to its symbolism closely. These practices enabled us to place the virtues of repentance, religion and reverence: the first turning our attention back to our God, the second binding us ever closer to Him, and the third giving us the ability to imitate His Mother, Mary, by making us attentive to His preparatory work within us and around us. We continued to put the virtue of reverence into practice in meditating on the great “O Antiphons” of the Advent Season, training our sight and our hearts to both recognize Our Savior when He appeared and make room within so that He might abide with us as Emmanuel.

All of this preparation brought us to this moment. While the rest of the world has celebrated for a month, we awaited the one thing necessary, the one thing worth celebrating, the presence of Emmanuel, God with us. To the people of Christ’s time, the idea of God becoming one of us was unthinkable because God was so pure, so far above us that to even have contact with us would somehow sully his divinity. Such is the god of the philosophers, but not the God of Christianity. In our time people scoff at the very same idea for another reason entirely, seeing it as nothing more than mere myth, the man we worship as God Incarnate, they say, was no more than a great teacher and moral exemplar. Such is the mentality of the post-Christian age in which Christians live, but not one they share.

For Christians the birth of the Infant lying in the manger is what makes life worth living, the One Who gives life purpose. Centuries before us, among us today, and, if God will it, for centuries to come, the world lay pining in sin and error as the beautiful Christmas hymn “O Holy Night” reminds us. But the grace that we as Christians have been given is to have our hearts awakened by the Love which looks down upon us this day by looking up at us from a humble manger. To paraphrase Hans Urs von Balthasar, just as the repeated smile of a mother gazing over the railing of the infant’s crib eventually awakens a responding smile from the child, today God smiles upon us, warming our hearts with the appearance of the Face of Mercy, and our souls for the first time, feel their true worth. And just as the infant’s smile marks the beginning of an acknowledged relationship, today marks a new beginning for us, a new beginning as sons and daughters of the Most High God, for today, the Son of God becomes the Son of Man, drawing us into the very family of God.

With great joy, today the Church enters, not just a day, but a Season of great celebration! One day will not suffice to celebrate the Incarnation of our God. So, despite what you may see your neighbors doing, now is precisely not the time to drag your Christmas Tree out to the curb! For our celebrating has just begun. In fact, our celebrating will go on for just over two weeks from today. The Octave of the Christmas Season will culminate in the Solemnity of Our Lady, the Mother of God, and then will continue for another week before concluding with the Feast of Our Lord’s Baptism. And between now and then, we have much to celebrate. We will celebrate the feasts of the Holy Family, the Holy Innocents and Epiphany all before then. So, please, join the Church for this great Season of Celebration with great vigor. For by entering into these celebrations we take our first steps, as it were, as sons and daughters of God.

This is precisely what the Solemn Blessing for today asks of Our God. There, we hear the priest beseech God to make the coming of His Son effective in our lives, to allow the Divine Exchange made possible by the Incarnation to take place in us:

May the God of infinite goodness, who by the Incarnation of his Son has driven darkness from the world and by that glorious Birth has illumined this most holy day, drive far from you the darkness of vice and illumine your hearts with the light of virtue (Solemn Blessing for The Nativity of Our Lord, St. Paul Daily Missal, 933).

Over the past four weeks we have made the preparations for this day, now let us beg of God the grace to be taken up into the Divine Exchange of God becoming man, so that men might become partakers of the Divine Nature.

Your servant in Christ,

Tony