“There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear” 1 John 4:18

In the first episode of the Chosen, Jesus finds Mary Magdalene in a dark and filthy bar in the Red Quarter. She demands the bartender serve her a drink, “lots of it”, and as he passes it to her, Jesus places His hand on hers. She pulls her hand away, “Don’t touch me!” she says, and leaves the bar in fear. “Leave me alone.” But the Hound of Heaven follows her. “Mary,” he calls out to her, “Mary of Magdala.” She stops and turns toward him, “How do you know my name?” she asks. He responds with Isaiah 43:1,  “Thus says the Lord who created you, and He who formed you, Fear not for I have redeemed you, I have called you by name. You… are mine.” Tears flowing from her face, she falls into the arms of Jesus and they embrace.

The Beginning of Wisdom

Due to her sins, Mary Magdalene fears the Lord coming and exhorts Him to leave her alone. She runs away from Him, wanting nothing to do with Him. She fears punishment for she senses Who He is, that is God Himself with the power to bring both death and life (Deuteronomy 32:29), and life through death (John 11:25-26). Fear of the Lord cinematically portrayed here profoundly demonstrates for us what the author of Proverbs wrote, “The beginning of wisdom is fear of the Lord” (Proverbs 9:10; see also Sirach 1:27). As sinners it is our preference to remain in the dark, to remain in the filth of our sinfulness, much like the atmosphere of the bar in the Red Quarter. And just like Mary, we would rather try to forget our sins than to confront them. It is truly a grace to acknowledge our sins, which is why fear of the Lord is one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit. When grace breaks into our lives in the radical way portrayed in this scene from The Chosen, more often than not it is to remind us of the fact that we were not created for this world but for an eternal one, and what happens after that confrontation determines whether we will be joyfully united with God in Heaven or terribly sentenced to Gehenna with the devil. This sense of the eternal ramifications of how we respond to grace is the beginnings of what we call the Fear of the Lord. And, Fear of the Lord’s punishment is first step on the path to Love.

To help us better understand this, St. Augustine masterfully uses the analogy of a physician, for Jesus is indeed the Divine Physician. In his Ninth Homily on the First Epistle of John, he writes, “The fear of God wounds in the same way as a physician’s scalpel: it removes the festering and seems as it were to enlarge the wound. See, when there was festering in the body the wound was smaller but dangerous. The physician’s scalpel appears: that wound used to pain less than it pains now that it is being cut. While being treated it pains more than if it weren’t being treated. But when medicine is applied it is still more painful, so that it may never pain once health has been restored. Let fear occupy your heart, then so that it may bring charity; let the scab give way to the physician’s scalpel.”

Turning Point

When Mary hears Jesus call her by name, she stops running away from Him and toward her sinful life, and turns instead to face Him. This turning away from sin and toward a life with God is known as metanoia, which is Greek for “repent and believe” (Mark 1:15). It is what we normally call conversion. Just as our ability to recognize our sinful state, metanoia or conversion,is possible only by grace. In the fist part of the scene, Mary is unable to turn toward Jesus on her own. On the contrary, her impulse is to run away from Him. Jesus must first initiate, He must supply the grace needed for her to convert, to turn toward Him. And this is exactly what we see on the screen. On her own, she flees from Him and, if He hadn’t continued to pursue her, the weight of her own volition would have carried her away from Him. But, when He calls out to her, she stops. This is the beginning of repentance.

The Fear that Endures Forever

Fear of punishment for our sins is the first type of fear; but there is another type of fear that Sacred Scripture speaks of, and that is an abiding fear: “The fear of the Lord is pure, enduring forever” (Psalm 19:10). How can fear of the Lord both be the beginning of wisdom and enduring forever? To help us understand these two types of fears, again St. Augustine helpful. To help us understand, he provides us with another analogy, this time of two wives. The first wife considers adultery, but fears that her husband would find out and condemn her. Consequently, she longs for her husband’s absence. The second wife, is faithful, desiring only to love her husband. Yet, she fears too. However, her fear is not of her husband discovering her unfaithful heart. Instead, she fears losing him. St. Augustine concludes, “And when she comes to his embrace, she fears, but in peace. She will be on her guard and she will keep herself from all wickedness, lest she sin again– not lest she be cast into the fire but lest she be left by him. And what will there be in her? A chaste fear, abiding forever.”

This second type of fear is the fear of falling back into our sinful states. It is the fear that guards against pride, for now that we are reconciled with God, we fear losing Him again. We see this powerfully demonstrated as the embrace between Jesus and Mary Magdalene. To be sure, she once feared the scalpel of the Divine Physician, but now that she is healed, she fears being sick again.

Perfect Love

Let us not despair if we are in the first camp, fearing the Lord’s punishment. This is the beginning, a sign that grace is at work within us! But let us not be satisfied to remain in such a state. Let’s strive to cooperate with the Divine Physician, to allow Him to cut out the dead flesh and heal us. And once Jesus begins to heal us, let us pray that the Holy Spirit’s gift of the fear of the Lord may abide in us so that we may fear being separated from Him, the Bridegroom of our souls, just as the good wife fears losing the love of her husband for. By cooperating with the grace of these two types of fear of the Lord, we are on the right path to perfect love, for perfect love is not achieved this side of eternity. Only when we are eternally embraced by our Creator and our Savior, only then will all fear, both the fear of punishment and the fear of losing Him, be finally driven out.

Until then, let our fear of the Lord strengthen us to joyfully echo Mary Magdalene’s response to Nicodemus, “I was one way and now I’m completely different, the thing that happened in between was Him.”

Your sister in Christ,

Vanessa

A previous version of this article was first published on Catholic Women in Business on 5-17-22